Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Calgary Stampede



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Renting a home for a long term stay its the best option when you have a family. It provides privacy and security and more importantly affordability.

RentCalgary.com has numerous neighborhoods, homes and options available. If you are a property owner in Calgary they have information for you should you be interested in listing your home for rent as well.

The site is easy to manage with pictures, prices and maps available to provide you with as much information necessary to seek out a rental property in Calgary.

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Blogger Awards


I was nominated (again) this year for A JDR Green Blogger Award.

I am grateful and excited however it comes on time of immense change. I was in a very bad auto accident on the 9th of February. I sustained serve head injuries and some bad physical bruises but I am alive and grateful for this new but challenging opportunity that this accident brings.

I may not have the time nor actual ability to maintain the blog as I have - its a struggle in the best of times so I hope you all understand but participate in the awards as there are many great blogs out there that need support too!

Here is the email from the hosts that explain the program....

We are thrilled that you are a Best Blogger in Green nominee in the 2012 JDR Industry Blogger Awards!

Voting starts on Monday, February 27th. Get your blog visitors, friends and family to vote for you! We are attaching a "nominee badge" for you to use on your site. This is a handy way to encourage people to vote for you. We have no requirements for how you decide to promote your participation in the contest, but we also want to make it as easy as possible for you by offering some suggestions.



Please post the attached badge on your site, with the link URL to the contest , to draw attention to your participation. You may want to consider a blog entry, similar to the following:

 "We have been nominated as Best Green Blogger in the 2012 JDR Industry Blogger Awards! Voting is now open. Please vote for us here today!"



Thanks to every one who reads this blog and supports me in my effort to make the world sustainable. Now its my turn to actually put theory into practice when it comes to me.

6 Favorite Eco-Friendly Finds

Great Ideas and Finds that I have done in my home.



6 Favorite Eco-Friendly Finds

Other ideas include making scarves into pillows or throws for the bed or sofa.

Finding art in unlikely places.. some advertisements in especially foreign press are fantastic.

Embrace color...

Friday, February 17, 2012

Be a Saver!


Are you looking for a deal?

Never mind that is a redundant question?

There is a site for you: Frugal Dad who is there for you without lecture on finding the right deals including ways to save your next PC.


Most every store offers some coupons for in-store purchases or coupon codes that can be to be used online. A prodigious shopper knows how to seek such things out - me included.

Regardless if is for the family or it’s time for another date night; there are free coupons available online for a myriad of things.

And yes for bloggers and tweeters there are numerous options out there seeking your time and ambition.

Conventional stores such as Best Buy and Target can offer exclusive deals for online shopping that you sometimes can’t find in store and occasionally like free shipping/home delivery. Inevitably a perk for those looking to save on gas costs and getting bulky purchases home.

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Monday, February 13, 2012

Graceful Gliding

Graceful Gliding

Guest post written by my buddy Aldo Mays

Last weekend, we logged on to satellitetvmanhattanny.com to buy more channels to our basic programming in New York. One of the channels my husband has to have is ESPN and all of the affiliated sports channels. He is a huge sports fanatic, but as our oldest daughter has realized her passion for swimming, she is also interested in following elite swimmers as they train for upcoming Olympic trials. Although we do not let her watch a ton of TV, I do let her sink her teeth into any of the televised swim meets even if they are off the “ESPN Classic” channel from years ago. We all learn best through motivation from the best. As I sat down with her and watched these young swimmers glide through the water, I was awe-struck with how effortless these stokes seem to them. As a former swimmer, I know that it does in fact take a huge amount of effort to swim well, but it still amazes me to see true leaders in the sport as they swim lap after lap. What a contrast this is to the strokes of those just starting out! My daughter is eight, and she has only been swimming for one season now. She has made huge improvements in her endurance and technique, but even still, there are times when I wonder if she will ever make it to the other end of the pool. This is why I let her watch. I let her watch to see the potential that she holds. Each of those stellar swimmers started off at the exact same place as my daughter. Through time, great coaching, and motivation, those who put forth their best truly excel in their sport.

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

The New Feminism


I have found myself of late in defense of women - to women. There are distinctly two camps of women it appears: Those in support of the sisterhood and those who see themselves distinctly at odds with it. A sort of distinction between Oprah and Martha Stewart.

Both views are valid. Women are no different than men in the respect that some women are open books, emotional, in touch with being a woman but still being strong and others who seem more like men - reserved, uber driven, aggressive. Today’s post feminist seem to have added a third camp - the “Reality Whore” think the Kardashian’s, women whose sole industry and skill set relies on sexuality, passive aggressiveness, more prone to be a “frenemy” than a mentor.

Young women have often rejected feminism as they see it as the outdated and embracing a philosophy that one must be more like a man in order to make it as a woman, hence rejecting the political activism of the 60-70s as out of date and irrelevant at this time. And as a result we see in popular culture women adrift with few role models either relying on males as mentors or embracing a Devil Wears Prada type mindset.

As more and more women’s issues have been brought under fire in this new political landscape -women are finding everything from social services, to health care and their right to privacy and security at risk or under a glaring microscope of what has long been a major issues in economic security and social justice which the women’s movement was all about.

Women are graduating in record rates from higher education, yet they still continue to make less wages on the dollar, there are still fewer in executive positions and meanwhile the majority of care of children, older family members or the home are still largely women’s responsibilities. As recent Pew Study found women who undergo a divorce or become widows fall out of the “middle class” (a still debatable and fluid definition) faster than any other group other than black males.

So when you read/hear current statements from women in industry you expect a more supportive understanding of why women, despite all the accomplishments, are still failing to move forward and in turn upwards. Well it appears that is not part of the discussion from the return of Iron Lady to the current CFO Sheryl Sandberg of Facebook - it appears that women have no one to blame but themselves. We’ve come a long way baby when women are still trashing women to justify their success at the vilification of others.

I was particularly appalled by Sheryl Sandberg’s recent panel at Davos exhorting women to rise above their whining and accept the idea that they alone are responsible for their failures or success..what she calls the “ambition gap”. In addition Ms Sandberg said that women must be more accepting of labels such as “bossy”. As she was defined as “bossy” as a child and rather than reject it she embraced it to drive her in business. The analogy being that women must not be driven to be “likeable”. Given that Ms. Sandberg has not one but two Harvard degrees, powerful mentors in politics (Lawrence Summers and under the adage if you have nothing good to say say nothing shall be applied here) and her current (and second) husband is a CEO of a major Tech firm, I wonder if Sheryl would have any idea of what any “99% woman” deals with on a daily basis.

While holding this panel at Davos Ms.Sandberg was held up as a model of a successful woman. Irony that other women at Davos were concerned as how few women were there either in attendance or leading panels.


The one skill I do know Ms. Sandberg possesses is "know your audience". While at Davos Ms. Sandberg continued her mien how men are not the problem regarding women’s success but when speaking to the graduates of Barnard (a private woman’s college), altered her message to include such sage advice as this: “the most important career decision you’re going to make is whether or not you have a life partner and who that partner is.” In other words marry up. Ms. Sandberg clearly found that in Husband number 2. Husband number 1 perhaps not so much.

The reality is for women - bossiness and ambition aside - few women are leaders in Business. In the U.S., the number of Fortune 500 companies run by women fell to a dozen last year from 15 in 2010. At Davos 80% of the attendees were men, of the 6 co-chairs Ms. Sandberg was the sole woman. Facebook, Twitter, Zynga, Groupon, Foursquare—none, has a female director on its board. PayPal has no women on its five-member board; Apple has one of seven; Amazon one of eight; Google two of nine

And while Ms. Sandberg was profiled in the New York Times as strongly encouraging women to be a part of the male dominated culture of the Tech industry, I was not impressed that most of her female hires were poached from other companies (mostly Google as well she worked there) and I find no mention of “mentorship” for women outside the industry to transition in. Nor is there a program to deal with the rampant age discrimination found in tech, which Facebook’s under 40 hiring is notorious. Perhaps they too have an “ambition gap.”

But its the term “bossy” that draws my ire the most. I get that a 1% elite and soon billionaire has no idea of what non Ivy League graduates face and that single mothers, older women, working moms without rich husbands, nanny’s and 6 figure salaries face - its just not part of her reality. But to say the term “bossy” is a positive is clearly sexist and damaging in every sense of the word. Its a pejorative term that demeans women, along with other euphemisms such as “sassy” “spitfire” and “bitchy”. The word bossy brings to mind Lucy of Peanuts or Nancy with Sluggo - the little girl women who boss their peers and are best suited to running a home not a business. If there are any equivalent terms for men I am unaware. Calling a man “bossy” would be to say the least a put down; Men even in their most assholishness are still exhorted for being “tough” “strong” “focused” “driven”. All qualities that I could easily apply to any successful woman and do so without sarcasm or irony.


To have a modern woman and soon to be billionaire say women are solely responsible for their destiny, embrace their bossy nature and marry well sounds like many of the women featured on the Bravo Housewives franchise - bitchy, competitive, blame seeking and unpleasant. Yes the ideal stereotype of what defines women in the modern post feminist age.

Monday, February 6, 2012

The Mall Of America


The Mall of America - the epitome of largess of the consumer culture that is the American way. Landscape dotted by massive parking lots and large extensive buidligns that evoke almost Vegas Casino levels of full entertainment to keep you there as long as possible was the mark of success. Today many malls and their smaller cousin the strip mall sit vacant looming large over their adjacent communities.

Today in the NY Times an article discusses how many cities are realizing that they offer an opportunity to create modern green spaces - from restoring the local landscape to building indoor ones that do all from growing gardens to providing local schools, community centers and even housing.

There is no question that our housing needs are dire. As homes are foreclosed at rapid clips and the subsequent problems created with a largely under/unemployed nation the need for affordable housing, close to shopping and less commuting will be essential. Tearing them down is not the answer but making them greener is. A mall was once a tribute to consumerism but today it can be more.

How About Gardening or Golfing at the Mall?

By STEPHANIE CLIFFORD
Published: February 5, 2012

“I look at it as space, I don’t look at it as retail,” said Vicky Poole, a Galleria executive. “You can’t anymore.”

Malls, over the last 50 years, have gone from the community center in some cities to a relic of the way people once wanted to shop. While malls have faced problems in the past, the Internet is now pulling even more sales away from them. And as retailers crawl out of the worst recession since the advent of malls, many are realizing they are overbuilt and are closing locations at a fast clip.

The result is near-record vacancy rates at malls of all kinds, both the big enclosed ones and the sprawling strips. Sears Holdings is closing up to 120 stores, Gap Inc. 200 stores and Talbots 110. Abercrombie & Fitch closed 50 stores last year, Hot Topic, almost the same number. Chains that have filed for bankruptcy in recent years, like Blockbuster, Anchor Blue, Circuit City and Borders, have left hundreds of stores lying vacant in malls across the country.

Most cities, looking at shrinking budgets, cannot afford to subsidize or knock down ailing malls, and healthy retailers that are expanding — like H&M and Nordstrom Rack — generally will not open at depressed locations. So, as though they were upholstering polyester chairs from the 1960s with Martha Stewart fabric, urban planners and community activists are trying to spruce up and rethink the uses of many of the artifacts.

Schools, medical clinics, call centers, government offices and even churches are now standard tenants in malls. By hanging a curtain to hide the food court, the Galleria in Cleveland, which opened in 1987 with about 70 retailers and restaurants, rents space for weddings and other events. Other malls have added aquariums, casinos and car showrooms.

Designers in Buffalo have proposed stripping down a mall to its foundation and reinventing it as housing, while an aspiring architect in Detroit has proposed turning a mall’s parking lot there into a community farm. Columbus, Ohio, arguing that it was too expensive to maintain an empty mall on prime real estate, dismantled its City Center mall and replaced it with a park.

Even at many malls that continue to thrive, developers are redesigning them as town squares — adding elements like dog parks and putting greens, creating street grids that go through the malls, and restoring natural elements like creeks that were originally paved over.

“Basically they’re building the downtowns that the suburbs never had,” along with reworking abandoned urban malls for nonshopping uses, said Ellen Dunham-Jones, a professor at the College of Architecture at the Georgia Institute of Technology.

The efforts reflect a shift in how Americans want to shop today: rather than going to big, overwhelming malls, many prefer places where stores can be entered from the street, featuring restaurants, entertainment and other Main Street mainstays. Also, as commuters in urban areas shift to public transportation, the giant parking lots are no longer needed.

The Simon Property Group, a large mall operator, is remodeling 15 to 20 malls a year, said its chief operating officer, Richard Sokolov. It is adding amenities like electric-car charging stations and stadium-seating theaters, and scheduling 20,000 events a year, like cooking demonstrations. Malls today have to “provide a unique set of shopping, dining and entertainment experiences,” Mr. Sokolov said.

Westfield, another large operator, has added dog runs and ice rinks, and, in Toledo, Ohio, the Wait Room, a lounge where customers can drink a beer and check their e-mail “while their significant other shops,” said Katy Dickey, a Westfield spokeswoman, in an e-mail.

While some malls can afford to change with the times, many cannot, and over all, there are too many malls today, urban planners say. The vacancy rate at shopping centers and strip malls was 11 percent in the last quarter of 2011, the highest level since 1991, according to the research firm Reis. Larger regional malls fared better, with a vacancy rate of 9.2 percent.

There are about 108,000 shopping centers in America, according to a 2009 survey by the International Council of Shopping Centers. Just a few years ago, developers competed to build malls, betting that continued growth would support them, but the recession threw those plans off course.

A new enclosed mall has not opened in the United States since 2006, according to Professor Dunham-Jones, and many ambitious projects, like New Jersey’s Xanadu just west of Manhattan, have lain half-finished for years.

“In the aggregate, we have more than we need at this point, and it can have a blighting influence on communities,” said Patrick Phillips, chief executive of the Urban Land Institute. “You see that all over the country, these endless commercial strips that are completely underutilized.”

That is leading to a variety of creative solutions that “would help make ’60s and ’70s suburbia a bit more sustainable,” said Rob Shields, director of the City-Region Studies Center at the University of Alberta, which held a design competition over the last several months that attracted the Detroit and Buffalo proposals.

But putting the theory into practice is requiring unusual city-developer liaisons. Mall owners often need regulatory clearance or financing help from a city to make major changes, and cities can sometimes seize malls that they believe are a hindrance to economic development. And malls were usually built at busy intersections with good access to public transportation — a combination that still works, even if the mall itself doesn’t.

In Seattle, city planners are looking at reworking a still-thriving mall as a focus point for more development.

“We’re at this interesting moment, because in cities, land is very scarce,” said Marshall Foster, city planning director for Seattle, which is trying to make Northgate Mall, a popular mall built in 1950, a center for urban life. “We can’t afford to overlook these opportunities any longer.”

The city is adding transit and trying to increase jobs and living space there. It has restored a creek originally covered by a parking lot, and is pushing the mall owner and retailers to add a street-grid layout and remodel stores so they are accessible from the street.

Cleveland, too, has given over some plots of land to the greenhouse effort at the Galleria mall.

The shift to gardening began with the carts that used to sell jewelry or candles, where Ms. Poole, the director of marketing events, had herbs planted in the disused retail carts inside the mall. She learned how quickly aphids proliferate indoors (solution: release 1,500 ladybugs into the mall).

The garden now produces lettuce, strawberries, basil and other crops, which are sold to visitors and used for the mall’s catering business. An unexpected benefit has been an influx of visitors, which has prompted related retailers to open in the mall, like a company that sells rainwater collection barrels.

“This has been sustaining us throughout these hard years, but now we’re looking at the potential of turning things around,” said Ms. Poole while preparing kale and spinach seeds for spring planting.